She asked me
“What is Bdsm?”

I answered simply

Sexual emotional and spiritual empowerment in the right hands
Through devotion and taking
Being exposed sexually and honest with yourself and with someone else.
Power exchange to touch deep inside of yourself
Going far in the right hands
Learning to listen and express yourself
Creating with the right connection
To feel exposed and understand how much
Sexuality is important in life
And to be natural throughout the process that has been created
And to enjoy the Outcome
Learn to value everything
Feel everything
A touch a strike stroking hand or a sentence

And then she asked
“In short”?

Being whole with yourself both at the beginning and at the end
That is the goal.